Phone sex is not a new sexual trend.

A study shows that it is on the fantasy list of a lot of people. But are people exploring this sexual craving?

Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or you’re looking to try something new, phone sex can be amazing and can also be an exciting way to switch up your sex life, although it may be uncomfortable for some people at first…because it involves sharing your desires with another person and putting yourself out there, and this takes courage…

First-time phone sex session can be a little awkward. It’s new, it’s different and might even feel a bit weird, but it gets better with practice.

Some people find that they’re willing to explore fantasies over the phone that they’re too nervous to discuss in person as there is no pressure to act on them from a distance. Oftentimes, talking on the phone will encourage you to open up in new ways as you won’t be distracted by trying to interpret your partner’s body language or facial expressions.

Here are a few tips for Phone Sex:

1. Set a date: Pick a time when you’re both alone and free to let your inhibitions loose.

2. Get comfortable and in the mood: It will be difficult for you to enjoy yourself if you feel tense. So before you call, do whatever you need to do to get yourself comfortable and feel sexy.

3. Make the call: Once you have your partner on the phone, take things at a speed you’re both comfortable with. There’s no “correct” way to have phone sex.

4. Pick a topic: Getting started is possibly the hardest part, especially if it’s your first time! Pick a topic that’s easy for you to bring up, but which has the potential to spiral into steamier territory.

5. Get into the sex talk: Once you have the ball rolling and you’re feeling comfortable, try getting bolder with your descriptions, or bring up new, sexier topics.

6. Masturbate and orgasm (optional). Mutual masturbation and orgasm are excellent additions to phone sex, but they’re not a requirement by any means.

7. Ending the call: The point at which you decide to stop is up to you. There’s no need to wait for orgasm or, indeed, to stop just because you’ve both cum.

A great way to boost your phone sex experience even further is to include the use of sex toys.

Remember, there is no right or wrong way to have phone sex. Try not to overthink it and just go with the flow and whatever feels right for you.

Have fun.

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